Hush Podcast
At Hush, hosts Radio DJs Germaine Tan, Hazelle Teo and Azura Goh discuss relationships, health and wellness topics that may be taboo or just plain paiseh to talk about. Hush Podcast is a series by Clarity, follow us on Instagram at @itsclarity.co for exclusive content. They are also on YouTube.
Episodes
The fear of looking like a slut
Have you ever got in a situation where you wanted to post a photo or video of yourself on social media but stopped yourself because of what you’re wearing? On this episode of Hush, our hosts Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss multiple reasons why we women self-censor ourselves on social media. They discuss body image and self-esteem, judgy eyes of conservative friends, followers and r
On insecurities & the pressure to look good
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wished you were prettier? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss their own insecurities about their bodies, dangers of extreme beauty measures, and what it really means to them be body positive.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On period taboos and other weird things we were told about our periods
What was the weirdest thing you’ve heard about being on your period? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura share their personal experience and struggles during the time of the month and debunk some of the biggest myths about periods. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Taking charge of our period and our vagina
What do you do when you’re on your period? Azura, Hazelle and Germaine shares some tips and tricks to take care of your vagina and to get through that time of the month.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Things we wish we knew about sex
What have you learnt about sex in school and were they any useful? On this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura reminisce the sex education they received in school and reflect on the things they wish they knew.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Would you date a cheater?
A recent survey by a local matchmaking agency showed that Singaporean women were the least likely to date a guy who is shorter than them and earn less. Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss these survey findings, explore other relationship deal breakers and share their personal relationship experiences - past and present. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Let’s talk about big boobs, small boobs and the itty bitty titty
In this episode of Hush, hosts Germaine, and Hazelle discuss boob sizes, their representation in societal standards, and its pros and cons. They also share some tips on how to correctly measure your boob size and where to get the right bras. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Are women the weaker sex?
Germaine, Azura and Hazelle wrap up 2020 in this final episode of Hush podcast. In this episode, they shared their honest reflections on the podcast and some of their own personal progress: in relationships, career and self. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Out-earning our boyfriends, husband and how we feel about it
Can women be breadwinners? There is an assumption that women who earn more than their partners will not have one job but three: doing their actual work, taking the bigger load of the household chores and caregiving, as well as managing their partner’s easily damaged ego. In this episode Hazelle, Germaine and Azura discuss how they feel about earning more than their boyfriends and husband, an
Can women put a stop to toxic masculinity?
“Traditional” masculine traits which can sometimes link to aggression and misogyny is no stranger to us women. But did you know that anybody could be perpetrators of this harmful trait? In this episode, Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss this issue and reflect on this cultural phenomenon that not only affects women, but men themselves and society as a whole.See omnystudio.com/listener
Of Bridgerton, chastity and confusion on the wedding night
Understandably, there is a lot of curiosity and the lack of knowledge behind what happens on the wedding night - for experienced and inexperienced couples alike. As seen on Netflix's Bridgerton, understanding of cultural expectations in marriages is an important aspect of a relationship. In this episode, Azura, Germaine, Hazelle and our invited guest share their thoughts on chastity, the mechanics
Luxury bags, awards and loads of cash – what does success mean to us?
Some of us chase after monetary success; some see prizes of recognition as success; and others see success as a journey. But what does success really mean? Germaine, Hazelle and Azura discuss what it means to them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Unwanted advances and sexist remarks – our experience with workplace sexual harassment
Women in many industries in Singapore have suffered some form of sex-based harassment in the workplace. This includes sexual harassment, sexist remarks, and other forms of behaviour that demean or humiliate them on the basis of their sex. In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss this issue and share some of their experiences with workplace sexual harassment. Content warning: This episo
Are we ovaryacting? On abnormal menstruation, bleeding and spotting
Many women experience abnormal vaginal bleeding or spotting between periods sometime in their lives. In this episode, Azura, Germaine and Hazelle discuss abnormal menstruation, uterine bleeding, and spotting that are common yet less talked about. For more updates on Hush follow us on https://www.instagram.com/itsclarity.co/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Career choices - what we want to be versus what our parents want (Part 1, ft. Iman Fandi)
Navigating Parents’ Expectations of Your Career Choices “Be a doctor or a lawyer,” they said. Growing up in Singapore, a tightly-regulated, structured city, many have been conditioned to make certain career choices based on our parents' rigid expectations of success. Oftentimes, those choices were carried out at the expense of one’s happiness. The pursuit of passion takes c
Career choices - what we want to be versus what our parents want (Part 2, ft. Iman Fandi)
Navigating Parents’ Expectations of Your Career Choices “Be a doctor or a lawyer,” they said. Growing up in Singapore, a tightly-regulated, structured city, many have been conditioned to make certain career choices based on our parents' rigid expectations of success. Oftentimes, those choices were carried out at the expense of one’s happiness. The pursuit of passion takes c
Dealing with toxic, emotionally abusive relationships
Toxic relationships don't just apply to romantic partnerships. Friendships, familial and professional relationships can all turn out to be abusive or damaging as well. In this episode, Azura, Germaine and Hazelle discuss indicators of a toxic relationship and share what you can do if you experience them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Is it normal to be afraid of pregnancy and having children? (ft. Natasha Faisal)
Is it normal to be afraid of pregnancy? From pregnancy phobias to the cost of children and building careers - Azura, Hazelle and Germaine discuss their fears of pregnancy with our invited guest, 987 Radio DJ, Natasha Faisal.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Women’s invisible labour: The mental load
In recent years, men have stepped up to contribute more to the care of children and the household, but women, unfortunately, continue to hold most of the responsibility for making sure things get done. In this episode, Azura and Hazelle discuss women’s invisible labour: The mental load. They share with us who does the household chores in their homes, and who plans when things should get done
Has upbringing affected the way we love? (ft. Narelle Kheng)
How many times have you blamed your parents for “sabotaging” your relationships even when the actions were of your own? Whether it’s a form of mirroring the love you’ve gotten from your parents or filling a love gap that you’ve never received, you’re not completely wrong. Apparently, how you give and receive love in a relationship is greatly influenced and shape
Bushy, bare or half-way there? Our love-hate relationships with arm, facial and body hair
Have you ever asked yourself: when did women start shaving or when did it become a beauty standard? In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share their thoughts on women's relationship with body hair. They’ll share a bit of history of when it all started, and discuss pros and cons on shaving, waxing, laser and going au natural.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
WFH Special Part 1: Work from home confessions
In mid-May of 2021, Singapore’s government announced its return to Phase 2 Heightened Alert (P2HA), and introduced new COVID19 Safe Management Measures (SMM), forcing many of us to go back to working from home to reduce community transmission. Our Hush Podcast hosts Azura, Germaine and Hazelle, who are also colleagues at work, were additionally told to minimise contact among each other makin
WFH Special Part 2: On shopping online, lying and feeling embarrassed about our purchases
The pandemic has made e-commerce and online shopping the new normal - we buy everything online: from groceries to clothes, to even products that we would otherwise feel embarrassed to buy in stores. While it makes sense for us to shop online as we are discouraged to leave our homes, somehow we find ourselves feeling embarrassed whenever a new parcel comes at the door, and hide our purchases from o
WFH Special Part 3: Keeping our mental health in check during this pandemic
The pandemic has taken a significant toll on our mental health. More people in Singapore across different age groups are reportedly seeking help for mental health issues. While some of us are happy with the work from home arrangement, others are faced with deteriorating emotional health due to the loss of access to out-of-home activities, and being stuck at home in unconducive environments like po
We need to talk about Britney and how women were portrayed in the media
Britney’s documentary has prompted a re-evaluation of media coverage of celebrities, especially young women, who were hounded and scrutinised within the bubble of 00s celebrity culture. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine take a deeper look into how women were portrayed in the public eye back then - in Hollywood, as well as in Singapore, and reflect upon it. --- Follow us on I
Is there such a thing as 'The one'? (ft. YAØ)
Do soulmates really exist? We can debate all day on which camp you’re in, but whether you belong with the people who believe in finding their destined half (their one, true soulmate) or the people who believe in slow progress in relationships, we can all agree that love is complicated. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss love, devotion and all of its complications. They&rsqu
On awkward, uncomfortable and complicated in-law relationships
Relationships can be complicated when in-laws enter the picture, and somehow, it seems that women struggle a lot more than men in this aspect. No doubt, there’s a whole lot of anxiety and walking on eggshells to make things work, especially at the early stages of your relationship with your future in-laws. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine discuss why some of us are
Are women more emotionally expressive than men? (ft. Yung Raja)
Our emotional state usually determines the way we behave, and men and women relate to their emotions in different ways. When upset, women are more likely to directly express their feelings and seek support from friends and family, while men may hide their emotions or withdraw, often feeling that they need to be self-reliant. It doesn’t help that these behaviours are reinforced in the stereot
Our thoughts on the unnecessary policing of women’s clothes (ft. Jasmine Sokko)
When it comes to what we wear - women just can’t seem to win. Our clothing choices are constantly held under the microscope. We have been told to cover up, but also to “not be a prude”. But how much skin is too much skin? How much of a woman's leg is acceptable to see in public? It’s time to recognise that our clothing is not the problem. In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Ge
The one about our ticking biological clock and ageing eggs
A woman is born with a finite number of eggs that continuously depletes over her lifetime. Women tend to be most fertile in their twenties or early thirties, after which the quality of their eggs decreases. This also means that the possibility of having children - if we want them - becomes harder - but maybe it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine
Too awkward to ask - embarrassing health issues we don’t talk about (ft. Fiza O)
Stigma and embarrassment often see many of us suffer in silence for common and treatable conditions. There are probably more people than you think who suffer from those ‘embarrassing’ health issues that you might have like overly frequent urination, vaginal discharge, and bladder, bowel or period problems. We’re just too paiseh to talk about it. In this episode, Hazelle, Az
Can you really stay friends with your ex? (ft. Marcus Lee)
It’s no wonder why some say a breakup can be worse than bereavement. When someone leaves you because of death, they are gone forever, whereas, with an ex, they’re still alive when they leave. This makes it harder for those who have seen the end of their relationship grieve the loss as they are able to see and watch in pain as their exes move on without them. But for some, a break-up is
Does work-life balance even exist?
The problem with the term "work-life" balance suggests that we can have careers, a romantic relationship, even babies, and a clean house if we just prioritise and work harder at "balancing" our lives. And, if we are good at this, we might even get some "me-time" to spend on ourselves. But we all know that this is further from the truth. 3 In this episode, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine and our invited g
Work baby or real baby? (ft. Love bonito's Rachel Lim)
More young women are choosing career, freedom and independence over starting a family, and when or if they choose to get married, many are choosing to remain childless or have children at a later age. Yet a portion among them still feel guilty about their decision and at some point feel the need to conform to social norms, especially in Singapore, where women are still often highly judged by how t
All I want for Christmas is to be proposed to
What is your reaction to when you hear stories about marriage proposals? Do you react with “How romantic!” or do you immediately think that it’s unnecessary? To some, marriage proposals are a timeless and essential gesture as well as a necessary step on the road to marriage. However, others have called it outdated, superfluous and overly performative. In this episode of Hush, Haz
All the good and the bad from 2021
Last year sucks, but 2022 will be better In this last episode of season 3 of Hush Podcast, we look back at all the great and not so great things that have happened to us personally - from break ups to road accidents, award nominations to work troubles. We also look at some of the things that went well and not so well for Singaporean women as reported by the media and discuss what can be done for 2
Are we ready for male birth control pills?
Male birth control pills are set for human trials! What exactly does this mean for men and women? In Singapore, birth control is still a taboo topic as it involves discussions of a person’s sexual lifestyle. However in this episode, the Hush girls - Hazelle, Azura and Germaine explore the bigger question: Should men and women have equal responsibilities when it comes to birth control? S
On feeling uninspired, fearing change, taking risks
There is so much happening around the world today: wars, pandemics, stock market crash and “The Great Resignation”. It’s not common to see social media updates of people hopping onto a new job and doing something completely different in this pandemic. It seems like everyone is taking the leap of faith and embracing change. In this episode, the Hush girls will discuss their views
The Good, Bad, and Ugly of Living Alone
Moving out in your 20s and 30s is becoming more common in Singapore due to lockdowns and WFH arrangements. More young millennials are citing personal growth and independence as their biggest takeaways from this experience. Hush listeners and viewers are familiar that Azura has gotten married but is currently staying with her parents, Hazelle rented an apartment of her own, and Germaine is still st
Finding yourself after a break-up (ft. Bling Empire's Kelly Mi Li)
Breaking up with someone you love hurts, unfortunately, some things are just not meant to be. Relationships with our romantic partners are hard work but the most important relationship you need in life is the one you have with yourself. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine, together with our special guest Kelly Mi Li (most of you would know her from the Netflix series ‘Bling
On growing with daddy issues and improving our relationship with our parents (Ft. Carrie Tan)
Many of us in our 20s and 30s are often bounded by our parents’ traditional and cultural ways of upbringing and expectations. Over the years, things they said or done may have caused disagreements, fights, sometimes even emotional trauma. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine, together with our guest Carrie, share more about their relationships with their pare
Are we glad that the nightlife is back?
After two years, nightlife activities are back in Singapore! Yay or nay? How are the girls feeling about it? Have they been heading out to party? Or would they rather stay home and wind down? In this episode of Hush podcast, we get the girls to discuss more about the party and clubbing phase they have gone through in the past and how their lifestyle has changed since the restrictions came in place
Online dating and the rise of romance scams
Dating apps have made it so convenient for those looking for love, but it is also the perfect place for romance scammers to prey on innocent people. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura and Germaine caught up with the latest love scam news and share with us how we could spot red flags and what we can do if we fall in love with a con artist.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informa
Breaking up with friends and why that is ok
Falling out of friendships can be awkward and heartbreaking for some. But according to experts, it’s only natural for acquaintances and even close friends to fall by the wayside as time goes on. In this episode, Azura, Hazelle and Germaine share with us why it is ok to drop out of friendships or let it fade out. They share how their ‘past’ friends shaped them and why cutting them off was their bes
Should I consider egg freezing now that I can? (ft. Minister of State, Ms Sun Xueling)
Elective egg freezing will soon be allowed in Singapore for women aged 21 to 35 years old, starting in 2023. As we celebrate this new milestone, there have also been critics of the new policy. While it is impossible to determine the success rate of the policy, we want to highlight one important message: Taking care of our own bodies. In this episode of Hush podcast, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine me
It's a matter of choice: Women's right to abortion
On 24 Jun 2022, the US Supreme Court voted to overturn Roe v Wade, a constitutional law that recognises a women’s right to abortion in the states. The news is shocking and upsetting since women’s rights have come a long way today. In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine share their thoughts and discuss more on the stigmas of abortions and women’s rights.See omnystudio.com/listener fo
Does your past define who you are today?
Do we believe that people deserve second chances? What if you had done something wrong in the past but the incident resurface and showed that you were not a very nice person? In this episode of Hush, Hazelle, Azura, and Germaine discuss the possibility of people changing over the years. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/e27wBqyN_Ac See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information
Is Singapore our forever home?
Have you ever considered emigrating out of Singapore? According to research done in 2016, 42% of young Singaporeans want to emigrate. Personally, we have seen friends who are looking to work overseas or move away for a few years. In this episode of Hush, we get the girls to discuss if they would stay in Singapore forever.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Do you label your relationships?
So you’ve hit it off with someone and things are going pretty smooth. But how do you ensure that you’re both on the same page? Do you put labels on your relationship, and if so, what and why? In this episode of Hush, we’re laying out the base for all the complicated romance situations you’ve ended up in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Are we afraid to talk about death?
While death is not something that many Singaporeans fear, we definitely do seem to fear talking about it. The stigma which surrounds death deters us from having casual conversations about the doom and gloom. In today’s episode, we discuss death in all its glory and highlight the importance of having die-logues with the people around us when we are still fit and healthy.See omnystudio.com/listener
Does travelling with friends ruin friendships?
We’ve heard stories about how some friendships break apart after a group vacation. No doubt, travelling with friends can truly test your friendship, but that does not mean that it has to end in a fallout. In this episode of Hush Podcast Hazelle, Azura and Germaine share with us the perks and pitfalls of travelling with friends and discuss if it’s really better to travel with friends or go on a tri
What impact does self-esteem and confidence have on us?
As girls, we grew up thinking that we have to look a certain way & uphold a certain beauty standard - like the figures represented on media platforms. With more body positivity movements in the world today, are we more accepting of our confidence as we age? In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle, Azura, Germaine share how they have found their confidence, style, and manage their anxieties in
LGBTQ: Is being tolerant good enough?
The news that Singapore is set to repeal section 377A and movements that advocate for the LGBTQ community, such as Pink Dot and #Ready4Repeal, mark a hopeful sign that Singaporeans are slowly moving towards a more open and tolerant society. But is being tolerant good enough? In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our guest, Jean Seizure, discuss the changing norms, and how we can shift fr
Friends or foes?
Friends and family are supposed to be your cheerleaders in life – supporting and celebrating the person you are, and the person you want to be. But, what do you do if a friend does the complete opposite? In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls navigate through identifying certain patterns and possibly toxic behaviours in our social circle and most importantly, how we can deal with all of these
Physical Intimacy: Is it for everyone?
Time to get down and personal. Some people like sex, some do not, and some of us just need a little more time to get used to intimate situations. All of these are completely ok. “Am I truly ready for this?” Let’s unpack this can of worms with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on this episode of Hush podcast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Answering personal questions, how we started and many more!
Hush Podcast has been running for close to 2 years and we thought, hey let's do an AMA! We answer your questions about the show & topics related to the episodes in this episode of Hush Podcast! Round 2? Saucy questions are welcome - https://ngl.link/itsclarity.co Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UkoIL2fNwM0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Of mum-shaming & struggles of raising a kid in the social media age (Ft. Naomi Neo)
Parenting is a tough endeavour. The rising costs of raising a kid, the arrival of social media and internet predators have made us rethink the kind of world we want our children to grow up in. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls and our special guest, Naomi Neo discuss more on modern parenting styles, struggles of raising a kid in the social media age, and not forgetting, mum-shaming. Watch
Is diet culture impacting our body image? Ft. Tyen Rasif
Since the dawn of time, girls have battled with body image. Surrounded by images of picture-perfect bodies, we are fed with the idea that we need to look a certain way. Naturally, fad diets and “health detox” supplements come into play just so we can achieve, what at times, seem like unrealistic beauty standards. But at what cost? Tyen Rasif joins the Hush girls to discuss diet culture and body i
Is cheating in relationships ever justified?
Are we slowly becoming more desensitised to cheating? It seems as though every few months, there will be reports on cheating cases. In this episode of Hush Podcast, the girls discuss the issues and reasons for infidelity and beyond. Why do people cheat even when they are presumably in happy & fulfilling relationships? Is nothing sacred anymore? Or is monogamy simply dead? Watch this podcast on
Do we really know what we want in life? ft. Alyph
“I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want”. Spice Girls would have made you believe that right off the bat, you should already know what you want in life. But what if you don’t? In this episode of Hush, the girls and our guest, Singapore rapper/producer, Alyph will attempt to solve the never-ending existential crisis of figuring out what we really want in life. Watch this episode on Yo
Setting boundaries as the ‘Therapist Friend’
Being a listening ear for your friends when they need you makes you one hell of a good friend, doesn’t it? Knowing they can trust you with their deepest, darkest secrets, and even helping them feel better than before. But what are the dangers of dishing out unprofessional advice, and where to draw the line? After all, people pay for a therapist! Let’s unpack with Germaine, Hazelle and Azura on thi
Sexual Violence & Assaults: Are victims at fault?
"What was she wearing?" "Why was she out alone at night?" "How much did she drink?" How many times do we have to hear these repeated for us to realise that victims are not to be blamed for the tragedy that befell them? What do we have to do for society to practise more empathy and realise the crux of the issue starts from the perpetrators themselves?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informat
Is living with our parents still considered filial piety?
The Singapore society is changing. With an ageing population and low birth rate, we need to ensure that we are able to tackle the challenges ahead. The Forward SG is an exercise for all of us to come together, examine our values and aspirations, build consensus and refresh our social compact. In this episode, Hazelle, Germaine and Azura explore the topic of Singapore’s ageing population and the tr
Reflections, advise & answers to your saucy questions
This Christmas, the Hush girls answers 🔥saucy🔥 questions sent in by our listeners that were packed into an advent calendar! What kind of questions are you expecting and is there more to the calendar than just questions? Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/eTtbffaCn2gSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Is the sustainable lifestyle for me?
As consumers, we are becoming more conscious of the choices we make every day and how they will affect the world that we live in. From plant-based diets to boycotting fast fashion, embracing the sustainable lifestyle is slowly (but surely) gaining more traction with Millennials & Gen-Zs. But is this lifestyle sustainable for the long run, or is this just a passing fad? Watch this episode on Y
How to deal with overbearing relatives, unsolicited questions and interrogations this CNY
For many of us, Chinese New Year it’s a great and fun time to catch up with our relatives and friends, but it can be stressful too. In this special episode of Hush, Hazelle shares with us tips for surviving Chinese New Year. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sDwo_0xcRFYSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On expectations & the pressures of Valentine's Day
Ahhhh…Valentine’s Day. A day of romance…or is this just another day that capitalises on the idea of gift-giving and grand gestures of love? Love or loathe it, Valentine’s Day celebration is inevitable when you are in a relationship. Or is it? The girls discuss the expectations and pressure for the ‘perfect’ Valentine’s day celebration in this episode of Hush Podcast, and weigh in their thoughts on
Can guys and girls be just friends? Ft. Avery (Part 1)
Can guys and girls just be friends? We’ve seen multiple movies that prove they can’t be without having some feelings involved. Don’t believe us? Just ask Rosie and Alex from “Love, Rosie”. From navigating the friendship, to drawing boundaries and having the talk, how exactly can we better manage our cross-sex friendships? This is part 1 of 2 of this episode. Watch out for part 2 next week! Watch t
Can guys and girls be just friends? Ft. Avery (Part 2)
Can guys and girls be friends? We’ve seen multiple movies that prove they can’t be without having some feelings involved. Don’t believe us? Just ask Rosie and Alex from “Love, Rosie”. From navigating the friendship to drawing boundaries and having the talk, how exactly can we better manage our cross-sex friendships? This is part 2 of 2 of this episode. Listen to part 1 here: https://open.spotify.c
Nightclubs molest & other stories: Can we blame it on the alcohol?
With Singapore nightlife back in full force, there has been a massive spike in molestation cases and fights in and around clubbing spots in 2022. Are we getting careless with our drinking habits? Or, is clubbing not safe anymore? In this episode, the Hush girls discuss the rising nightclub outrage of modesty cases, their nightclub stories and share how we could stay safe and party hard at the same
On dating boundaries and sex-pectations
*The episode discusses mature themes that are not suitable for listeners under 18. Listener discretion is advised.* We would like to think that in this day and age, no one would bat an eyelid over the idea of sleeping with someone on their first date. Alas, it’s still very much a taboo topic and straight girls especially would often get slut-shamed for having sex on the first date. Is it better to
Let’s get serious about sex, fertility and making babies
We’ve spoken multiple times about sex & physical intimacy, but this time, let’s get even more serious about it. The journey to becoming pregnant can be highly stressful for many couples, especially if they’re hoping to get pregnant quickly or have been through multiple failed pregnancies. Fertility issues - which are at the top of couples' minds - often times add more stress to their ‘Trying T
Grown-up mean girls and their toxicity
As juicy as it might be, the drama surrounding Hailey Bieber and Selena Gomez has shed some new light on the phenomenon of “Mean Girls” and the toxic herd mentality that follows. In this episode, the Hush girls discuss the Mean Girls in their lives and the how-tos on dealing with the negativity and toxicity of it all. Watch this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/so0-ou8lQwMSee omnystudio.com/li
What if I want to be single, forever?
When you’ve reached an age where everyone else seems to be getting married or having babies, being the only single friend can be rather unsettling. You may have friends and pesky (but well-meaning) relatives who will try to coax you to settle down or set you up on blind dates, but what if you are okay with being single? In this episode of Hush Podcast, Hazelle & Germaine will discuss the high
On female soldiers, military defence, and being a bad-ass
Even though it’s not mandatory for Singaporean women to enlist into the SAF, many of us have decided to join the Army or contribute to defence in our own way. More than just “female empowerment”, it’s a calling. To protect this place we call home. In this episode, servicewoman, Captain Tee Jin Hui, shares with us her story on what motivated her to join the Army; her journey from BMT to Signal Offi
Can co-workers become 'true' friends?
Have you ever found yourself questioning whether a particular colleague is a friend - or just a colleague? It can be challenging sometimes to decipher the nature of the relationship when working closely with someone. After all, the lines between friendship and professionalism can sometimes blur after spending too much time together. In this episode, the girls discuss workplace friendship: How do w
On bromance, boy love and everything in-between
Let’s talk bromance. While ‘bromance’ is not something new, it certainly is a refreshing idea as it dismantles the idea of toxic masculinity simply by allowing men to be more emotionally expressive (with other men). In this episode of Hush, join the girls and our guest, TikToker and lead actor of BL drama ‘The Day I Loved You’, Raynold Tan, as they unravel the concept of bromance, boy love, and th
Should I give my ex a second chance?
Reconciling with your ex: A common unaddressed dilemma in society. Should the past be in the past because things ended for a reason, or should we have faith in the power of redemption and correct what went wrong? The girls and their guest, Gold 905 radio DJ, Catherine Robert, discuss if love and relationships should be given a second chance in this episode of Hush. Watch this episode on YouTube:
How we dealt with our lowest & darkest days
We all encounter challenging moments in life, but how do we cope? What strategies do we employ to overcome these obstacles and find resilience? In the face of life's darkest days, finding ways to cope and build resilience is essential. In this episode, Hazelle, Germaine, and Azura explore the topic of dealing with challenging moments in life. The girls draw from their personal experiences and disc
How much have our dual and single-parent upbringings affected us?
Generally, the dual-parent family is viewed as the desirable family form. Whereas the single-parent family is sometimes seen as deviating from the societal norm. However, can various family dynamics affect a child's development? Or does the quality of the parent-child relationship ultimately exert the most influential impact? In this episode of the Hush Podcast, Azura, Hazelle, and Germaine will d
